5/3/2015- “Ciara (@ciara) Betted Right!”

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Hey Mikey,

So…my girl and I broke up six months ago. When I saw her out she acted all nice and sweet to me, but then I see her posting pictures with some dude on IG over the next three weeks. I guess dude has money because she been showing bags he bought her and she been flying to different places with him. He ain’t got me looks wise, but I don’t think his money is legit if you know what I mean. I don’t have any real proof just speculation. I mean who has all that cash at 22? Everyone says it is none of my business, but she and I were like best friends ’til she caught me talking to another girl. I’m really just trying to look out for her. Would I be wrong for doing a background check on the guy she is talking to now?

-Chino

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***Chino, speculation is just a sophisticated why of excusing your assumptions–something you have no right to do when it comes to your ex. She has moved on and so should you. Ghost following and tracking her via Instagram are not a good look! I can tell her kindness to you the last time you two crossed paths ignited hopes of reconciliation and now you want to sabotage her fledgling relationship now that she has found someone who’s financially a step up. Don’t be mad, don’t be sad, don’t do any background checks, don’t be resentful or bitter. Just MOVE ON This is what happens when you break up with someone…they find somebody new–and in the words of Ciara, “…somebody better than you…”

☆Need advice? Simply leave your question in the comments section of this post, or email me at  HeyMikeyATL@gmail.com. Be sure to pick a pen name! Thanks for checking me out! -Mikey ♡

The Haves & The Have Nots- “A Tragic Day”

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“The Haves & Have Nots” delivers a fresh crisis Katheryn rushes home to find out what has happened to Amanda. She demands to know what has happened to her daughter. Hanna tells her that Amanda has died and breaks down. The Harringtons try to comfort her while Jeffrey comforts Wyatt. Veronica asks Celine to bring them a glass of water for Katheryn but she refuses, still in shock. Veronica gets it herself, but is annoyed by her son’s interaction with Wyatt. She subversively tries to stop him from comforting him as Melissa looks on. Jeffrey refuses and continues to comfort him. David tries to get Melissa to leave but Veronica demands she stay. Before they can get into it Celine tries to leave the premises, but they police stop her, needing to get her statement. Katheryn demands they let her leave and tells her she is fired. Wyatt verbally attacks his mother admonishing her for turning a blind eye to his father’s shenanigans for years. She slaps him for disrespecting her. Jeffrey takes him into the kitchen to calm down at David’s behest. Veronica sends Melissa with them. The police allow Celine to give her statement outside to keep the peace.

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2/7/2015- “Her Obliterated Heart”

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Hey Mikey,

So I think I’ve met the right woman for me, but I don’t know if she thinks I’m the right man for her. It’s not that she doesn’t like me or doesn’t find me attractive; she’s just apprehensive and still dealing with emotional baggage from previous relationships. From what I’ve gathered from her, her family, and her friends; all of her exes either cheated on her, cheated on her and beat her, beat her and stole from her, or cheated and stole from her. So I try to be patient and find myself constantly trying to prove I’m a good guy. She rarely allows me to do even the most chivalrous things like open the door, pay for our date, or pull her chair out for her. The other day when we were hanging with friends–sort of like a couples‘ game night–we had to do this trust fall exercise. It was like pulling teeth getting to her to even attempt it. Once she did, she cried and left. I felt bad for putting her in that position and now she wants to see me sparingly. She’s even saying maybe we should slow down because she is not ready for what I’m ready for. Where do I go from here? I’m lost at what my next plan of action should be. I’m going to win her heart!

-Mr. I’m In Love

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***Mr. I’m In Love, the heart is a fragile thing. If you break it too badly it might never recover. Obviously your lady is heartbroken, as a matter of fact she is dealing with an obliterated heart. I like to think of this as a state of crisis within a person when you’re so very broken and emotionally vulnerable. She is wise to pull back from you as another emotional blow at this time could push her towards a breakdown or worst! Just Google “Broken Heart Syndrome,” AKA stress cardiomyopathy! In turn, you should slow down too. If she’s the one, and it is meant to be, then it will work itself out. Your plans of action now should be inaction and reaction. Let her set the pace and tone of your relationship. Trust me when I tell you that traversing the shattered pieces of an obliterated heart is the most difficult task in the universe. Any man who takes on this task will have to be guided by patience, garbed with love, and entrusted by God. Good luck!

☆Need advice? Simply leave your question in the comments section of this post, or email at  HeyMikeyATL@gmail.com. Be sure to pick a pen name! Thanks for checking me out! -Mikey ♡

The Haves & The Have Nots- “The War Room”

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Tyler Perry’s “The Haves & The Have Nots” begin with a scene of intimidation as Jim learns more about his captor, War, and his past. Jim tries to flex his legal knowledge and reason with “business man to business man” but he fails when he realizes the hardened criminal is not afraid of him and loyal to Candice. He tells Jim she always comes out on top, and even if he were to escape he would never survive their neighborhood. Jim realizes Candice has some power in that area and is left black bagged and in the dark again. Elsewhere, Hanna and her friend clean up after the party and discuss the whereabouts of Candice’s son. The woman tells her Quincy’s mother moved to Atlanta and she has not had contact with her since. Benny tries to get Hanna to send Michael home, but she refuses and tells him to let him stay the night to sleep off the liquor. Benny goes to check on Candice and finds she has snuck out! He tries to call her to no avail and then questions his mother about her friend, Jeffrey Harrington. He promises to find and protect her much to Hanna’s dismay. She pleads with him to stay out of Candice’s business but he flatly refuses!

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Splitsville for Toya (@toyawright) & Memphitz (@MeMpHiTz)!? It Doesn’t Look Good…

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Recently news of marriage trouble as become public news with one famous Atlanta celebrity couple;  former reality star, Toya Wright, and music producer, Memphitz. Recently both have taken to social media to hint at marital problems. Memphitz went first posting the following pictures and captions:

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The Haves & The Have Nots- “Power Dance”

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Tyler Perry’s The Haves & The Have Nots is back for a third, explosive season! The episode begins where the second season left off with Wyatt awakening from his sleep after hearing a noise. He walks through the house to investigate, finding his mother and sister sound asleep in bed. When he goes downstairs he notices the front door ajar and finds his father’s cell phone on the ground. He picks it up and looks around the house for him. When he does not find him he goes into his study, there he flashbacks about his own crimes and his father’s involvement with Candice. He pours himself a drink and finally musters up the courage to go through his phone and reads all the messages between Jim from Candice and Celine. Greatly disheartened he drinks the liquor and and angrily throws the phone out of the room!

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The Youngs try to enjoy a good time as they celebrate Benny’s recovery with the neighborhood. Everyone seems happy except Candice who remains nervous about Quincy looking for her. She keeps watching the street thinking any minute he will come by. Benny assures her she is safe and refuses to allow her to leave. Meanwhile, Hanna finds Michael has had a bit too much to drink and coaxes him into giving her his drink. they laugh and dance together happily about Benny’s recovery, but are briefly saddened by Lizzie’s demise. He holds her tightly, telling her how much cares for her. She advises him to eat some food and sober up. Benny pokes fun at her about Michael. He then tells her they are safe and he has “people” guarding the block with guns. Hanna warns him about getting involved with Candice’s situation and tells him Katheryn is coming by. He assures her she will not.

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Nick Cannon (@NickCannon) Warns The Media about Mariah Carey (@MariahCarey)!

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Although divorce can be tough for any family where things can get messy Nick Cannon is taking a different approach. Recently, the star went to twitter to air out somethings for all to know. Cannon didn’t hold back and set things pretty clear on his social media account.

Check it all out below!

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He states:

“I will never say anything negative about @MariahCarey We are forever a family rooted in love.”

“I am always an open book but Personal matters are just that “Personal.” So please respect my family and respect the process.”

“In other words, all you vultures and bottom feeders searching for a story can go

In the past Nick wasn’t always so private when it came to his relationship with the icon, but has turned a new leaf. This shows growth and wisdom. Looks like Mariah lucked up with a guy who has morals and knows how to keep family matters private.

We wish them all luck at this time!

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As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The Gay Bestie, LLC.  

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