I’m hurt. I’m so hurt that it’s hard to breathe. I’m actually fuming mad. This guy seemed perfect for me. We even went on four dates. Now it’s been a week and half and he hasn’t called, texted, or anything. I know he’s okay because he’s tweeting and updating his Facebook with photos. I sent him a message but he removed me from his friends’ list. I can’t figure out for the life of me what I did wrong. Why would he just cut me off like this? Is it wrong to go by his house and try to talk to him? How do I get through this?
***Anonymous, I can sense your pain, frustration, and confusion. Take it from someone who knows being cut off without explanation is hurtful. I have to tell you to move on. Do not blame yourself for any of what’s happened. His failure to be a decent human being and let you know he’s not into you speaks volumes about his character–or the lack thereof. DO NOT GO TO HIS HOME. You will be trespassing and come off as crazy and desperate. Dating is hard, and at times daunting. Just think of this as a learning lesson putting you one step closer to the guy you’re meant to be with.
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