“He’s Not My Type” – Why you SHOULD Date A Person Who’s Not Your ‘Type’

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We all have this little list of standards and qualities of what it is we want in a mate and ideally, that’s what makes up our “type”. For some women, it can be a man who’s tall, dark and muscular and for some guys, it can be a woman with fire engine red hair, a nice set of breasts and a J.Lo booty to round it all out. And that’s good. By all means, you have a right to like whatever it is that you like but have you ever thought that after several bad dates and three failed relationships maybe your type is just a bit… wrong? Don’t trip, we all do. We get so wrapped up in finding someone who fits the bill that we treat the dating process more like an auction instead of the interview of a lifetime. Opposites truly do attract and today, I’m going to tell you why it’s okay to date someone who is not your type.

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After a while of dating only people who fit your ‘type’ criteria, the dating game gets eerily familiar. You wind up being attracted to some of the same television shows, musics, foods and things of that nature but dating someone who’s not your type means you can broaden your outlook on a host of different things. Dating someone who doesn’t fit the bill means you will get to learn brand new cultures, hobbies, and will probably discover a whole new approach to life, too! That thai place you wanted to go to dinner at but couldn’t because your ex was really into Italian food, just so happens to be your new interests favorite spot!

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8/11/2016- “Closure With Zaddy”

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Hey Mikey,

Soooo I’ve tried to be modern about my break up with my ex. We have even hung out and communicated regularly despite him moving on, getting engaged, and now getting married. I even attended the wedding and befriended his new wife. I was hoping his marriage would be the motivation for me to move on, but I still find myself in love with him and wanting him. I feel like he and I should have a conversation when he comes back from his honeymoon just to kind of clarify where we stand and how we should move forward. What do you think?

-Missing Zaddy

***Missing Zaddy, there is no moving forward for you. The closure you are looking for came with your break up and him moving on with his life. There is nothing modern about continuing a relationship with an ex you still have feelings for, instead it is rather foolish. My dear, if it was meant to be it would have worked out between you and him. Let his wedding and honeymoon be the swan song what remains of your relationship. The future awaits–grab on to it!

☆Need advice? Simply leave your question in the comments section of this post, or email me at HeyMikeyATL@gmail.com. Be sure to pick a pen name! Thanks for checking me out! -Mikey ♡


#Heartwarming–Lil Durk (@lildurk) Speaks on Relationship with Dej Loaf (@DejLoaf)!


Every other month, we are fed rumors of a possible celebrity couple. Usually, the rumored couple will deny, or they’ll just give the typical “We’re just friends.”

There are also occasions when celebs can admit that they’re together, but it’s usually when the two involved are attempting to garner some attention to fuel their careers. And maybe that’s the case with rappers Dej Loaf and Lil Dirk.

The Detroit and Chicago rapper further fueled dating rumors late 2015 when they kissed on stage during a 106 & Party taping in December, and again when Durk released “My Beyonce” featuring Dej Loaf.

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Booed Up? Could Kendall Jenner (@kendalljenner) & A$AP Rocky (@asvpxrocky) Be The New Power Couple?


Not a day goes by where we don’t hear some news about the Kardashian clan. The latest news to rock the Hollywood Hills is the rumored relationship between Kendall Jenner and rapper A$AP Rocky.


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The rumors about the love birds started circulating earlier this summer when the two were spotted in Paris together during Menswear Fashion Week. Since then the couple has been flaunting their budding romance all over New York. There have been several sightings of the couple including at A$AP’s show on Saturday at the Panorama Music Festival.

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Into The Lady Pond! Khloe Kardashian (@khloekardashian) Is Now Open to Dating Women?

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Another day, and another Kardashian is in the news! This time it is our favorite Kardashian, Khloe. Apparently, the reality television star is ready to try something new with her love life.  As we all know she has been through a lot over the last few years when it comes to men, namely, her soon to be ex-husband, Lamar Odom and French Montana. A source close to the “Kardashian Kamp” states she has confided in her friends she is now open to dating women!

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“Khloe’s so disillusioned with men right now — it’s like finding one who’s fun but faithful is impossible,” an insider revealed. “She’s still on the hunt for a new guy, but she’s decided she wants to have a bit of fun and explore her sexuality in the meantime.”

As Radar reported, Kardashian had her first taste of life on the Sapphic side when she shared a drunken kiss with her best friend Malika.

Despite her limited same-sex experience, Kardashian, 32, is hanging out more with some of her closest gay friends and their social circles and willing to “see what happens,” said the insider.

“Khloe couldn’t care less what anyone thinks,” said the insider. “She wants to find happiness, whatever that may mean.”

We are not sure how true this is, but all we can say is we wish Khloe the best. Love is love, and if a woman can give her the love and peace she needs then so be it!

5/31/2016- “It Can’t Be About Him”

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Hey Mikey,

I really enjoy your site and the advice you give. You  recently helped a friend of mine get through something, and I hope you can do the same for me. There’s this guy I have liked since I was fourteen years old around the same time I figured out I was gay. I know he is too after we messed around when I was 17. Since then we are pretty cool and hang out from time to time, but nothing has flourished beyond us kissing and grinding on that amazing night.

Over the last year I’ve heard him repeatedly say he likes guys with muscles, money, and who are good in bed. Since then I’ve definitely been working out and it shows; and I’m getting a really good job making some major money. The sex part is hard. He’s the only guy I’ve ever been been semi-sexual with–and the only one I want to be. Needless to say I’m a virgin to the whole gay sex thing and I want to get it right with him. He’s the one, I know it. What do you think? Am I doing too much? I don’t wanna wait forever for him to come around…



***CJ, honestly, you are. Believe me when I tell you it can’t be about him. Who you are and how you are is perfectly okay. If he does not like you in that way,or  as you are, then it is his loss. I imagine your first sexual experience with another guy is something you want to look back on without regret or shame. NEVER change yourself for a guy. Change is something you do to better yourself. Besides money, muscles, and sex are fleeting and don’t guarantee you comfort late at night or in the long run. Reassess what you want out of a mate, date other guys, and ask yourself can he bring to the table what he’s demanding? Good luck!

☆Need advice? Simply leave your question in the comments section of this post, or email me at  HeyMikeyATL@gmail.com. Be sure to pick a pen name! Thanks for checking me out! -Mikey ♡

5/26/2016- “The Victim Of A Savage”


Hey Mikey,

I really hate when women say there are no good men. If there aren’t any its because they’ve somehow official fucked them all over! I dated this girl for like two months didn’t push the issue of sex, took her out often, and even introduced her to my family and friends. I really turned her onto some of the finer stuff in life.

After we freaked she tells me she wasn’t looking for anything serious; and that she only wanted to because I have a nice body and a big dick. I know she was feeling me, but now she won’t return my phone calls and shit. Wassup? Did I come on too strong? Her homegirl and I are cool do you think I should get her to see wassup?


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