#CelebrityCrush- Meghan Trainor (@Meghan_Trainor)

Body image issues are plaguing the hearts and minds of humanity like pollution plagued the world of Captain Planet & The Planeteers! It seems like if you are not a girl that is runway ready or a guy with a six pack the world writes you off as undesirable. Thankfully a few people dare to think differently and are calling out the media and their famed airbrushing techniques which promote unhealthy body images.

Our Celebrity Crush for this week, Meghan Trainor, is at the forefront of this with songs that tell us it’s okay to be big, curvy, and most of all ourselves!

Earlier this week we were watching a few of Meghan’s videos and found ourselves jamming again to All About That Bass! Those famed lyrics:

Yeah it’s pretty clear, I ain’t no size two
But I can shake it, shake it like I’m supposed to do
‘Cause I got that boom boom that all the boys chase
All the right junk in all the right places
I see the magazines working that Photoshop
We know that shit ain’t real
Come on now, make it stop
If you got beauty beauty just raise ’em up
‘Cause every inch of you is perfect
From the bottom to the top

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[AUDIO] “Chanel”-Frank Ocean

frank ocean chanel single art

Frank Ocean where have you been? Apparently making new music! In case you missed it, the singer/rapper released a new song recently, Chanel, and it may be just what the fans wanted. Especially if you were not feeling his recent albums, Blonde and Endless. You can listen to the single below:

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4/29/2014- “The Sex Playlist”

Hey Mikey,

I’m gonna keep it 100 with you I like to have sex–a lot! I also like to do it to music but I just don’t think I have the right songs at the time when I do it. It kinda throws me off. Could you make me a playlist of songs you think are good to screw to? I’d be a bigger fan of your advice than I already am lol.

-Mikey’s #1 Male Fan

***Mikey’s #1 Male Fan, I gotta say I’m flattered and will oblige you while simultaneously laughing. So from my personal experiences these songs are good for all types of sex/lovemaking.  It really depends on the kind of “work” you are putting in. I will say that the songs should go in sequence from foreplay, to “work,” to finish.
1.Stay The Night – Zedd featuring Hayley Williams
2. Wet The Bed- Chris Brown
3. Cookie-R. Kelly
4. I Can Tell – The 504 Boyz featuring Mercedes
5. Motivation – Kelly Rowland
6. Take You Down-Chris Brown
7. Body Party (Remix)- Ciara featuring Ne-Yo
8. Sexy Love-Ne-Yo
9. What’s Your Fantasy?-Ludacris featuring Shawna, Trina, & Foxxy Brown
10. Beat It Up – Lil Boosie
11. Replay- Zendaya
Oh, and be sure you wrap it up! Safe sex is the best sex! 😉

☆Need advice? Simply leave your question in the comments section of this post. Be sure to pick a code name! Thanks for checking me out! -Mikey♡

3/20/2014- “Jaded By A Gym Rat”


Hey Mikey, 

I like the advice you give women. It’s to the point and effective. With that being said here’s my issue. I met this guy at the L.A. Fitness near my house. We got pretty serious fairly quickly and before I knew it we were boyfriend and girlfriend.  Everything was going good until a few weeks ago when he started canceling our dates and sleepovers to work out at the gym all hours of the day and night. Whenever he would do this I’d drive by the gym and see him there so I knew he wasn’t lying. However, last week he missed my birthday dinner because he claims he lost track of time during his work out. I was thoroughly embarassed. To make things worse I was going to introduce him to my parents that night. Now people think he’s either someone I made up or a jerk. I wanna break up with him for this,  but I can’t lie the gym does his body good and I don’t wanna let him go. Should I?

-Bothered Ain’t The Word

***Bothered Ain’t The Word, honestly I don’t think you should break up just yet. However, you two must have a sit down, face to face conversation about the status of your relationship.  “Losing track of time, ” is a lackluster excuse for missing your significant other’s birthday dinner. Out of the twenty – four hours in a day he could have used any of them not associated with your celebration to work out. I beseech you to not let this ride!  If you allow him to get away with this he’ll only push the envelope further. Be firm, but tactful, when you explain to him how all this has made you feel. He must come to understand  if you are going to be his girl then you have to be a priority in his life. Lastly, don’t ever excuse any man’s wrongdoings because of what he looks like. You obviously don’t deal with embarassment well so don’t put yourself in a position where you constantly have to excuse him, and apologize to yourself. “Don’t be a hard rock when you really are a gem…baby girl respect is just the minimum…”

☆Need advice? Simply leave your question in the comments section of this post. Be sure to pick a code name! Thanks for checking me out! -Mikey♡