I think I’m ready–ready for sex. I’ve waited longer than all my friends to have sex with for the first time and I think my boyfriend is going to try and make move in that direction on our next date. He told me via text that he found a bando for us to go to that no one uses anymore to spend some time together. I’m a little anxious about the locale, but I feel like its about the act and effort he is putting into things. What are some things we can do to make this more romantic. I don’t want him to feel like I’m not doing my part and bringing something to this momentous event.
***Cassie…A bando? REALLY!? Yes, I’m judging this situation because it is ludicrous! You should not be losing your virginity in an abandoned house that crackheads and other wanton drug users use for coverage. You only get ONE first time and it should be special. This so-called “effort” your boyfriend is putting in is not enough. A motel at the very least should suffice. Beyond that, I hope you have done your research and are well versed in safe sex and pregnancy prevention. Be careful Cassie and most of all know your worth. There’s no harm in waiting for everything involved in this situation to feel right. Oh, and by the way, you’re bringing all you need to the table–just look in the mirror!